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The first advice on getting your ex back is to get your own life back on track. Your ex will never want to come back if he sees you as whimpering and broken as a result of the breakup. If you want to rekindle the relationship then you have got to show that you are perfectly fine without him. Once he gets the idea that you are no longer available to him he is more likely to come after you.

The first piece of advice is to send a very clear message to your ex that it is over for you. He should understand that you accept this and want to move on. A good way of getting this message across is to send back everything he ever gave you and all his belongings. Don’t make a big drama about doing this. You can quietly leave them in a box outside his door or have them mailed. It is best not to include any notes but if you do decide too, then a short message stating that you were doing a clear out you found some items of his. Sign off with best wishes or regards but no ‘love from’ should appear.

You have to be very patient if you want to get your ex back. This means that you shouldn’t find excuses to call him or email him or send him SMS messages. You shouldn’t even fraternize with him on a social networking site. Delete him immediately if he is one of your ‘friends’ on Facebook or Myspace etc. It will soon be clear to him that you are not interested in what he is doing and would prefer it if he didn’t know anything about you either.

Some good advice on getting your ex back is to let him see you having a good time and clearly in control of yourself. Invest in some new clothes and a new haircut. Go out with your friends and rather than avoid the places you know he might be, be sure to be seen there, having fun. Say ‘hi’ to him in a friendly way if he passes but don’t hang around near him.

Your ex will be even more interested in you when he sees that you are not afraid to be in the same space with him. However do not approach him. A friendly wave from across the room is enough. You should then set about having a good time but ignoring him completely. It won’t be long before you get a tap on your shoulder. It’s him wanting to know if you want the next dance.

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